Lingerie Parties are great fun for girls and couples
October 10th, 2009Lingerie parties are parties for girls who want to have fun as wearing lingerie sets the tone for a party. Theme parties like lingerie parties offer girls the opportunity to show off their sexy lingerie to their girlfriends or their boyfriends as well. These days theme parties are all the rage as these unique parties can either be a girls night out or a couples party with an erotic twist.
When you are trying to decide whether to have a theme party this is the time to ponder if a lingerie party is being considered and if so should it be all girls or girls and guys. Since you need to send out invitations either formally or by email or phone calls it is essential to know what the ground rules are and if guys are invited.
As you know there is lingerie and then there is sexy lingerie and the invited girls need to know what to wear to the party and you need to know what to do if girls show up not wearing lingerie. If you decide to leave it up to the girls what type of lingerie they are going to wear you may be disappointed particularly if you have a certain dress code in mind.
Lingerie parties, like costume parties have the inevitable participants who chicken out at the last minute for any variety of reasons. Girls may love the idea of wearing lingerie to a party and then again they may go along to get along but have little desire to show off to their girlfriends. Whether it be body image issues, modesty or unwillingness to expose themselves. So a lingerie party has a planning element that most other parties with the exception of sexy costume parties have in having invited guests wear the required outfits. So you have a decision to make, do you make wearing lingerie mandatory or optional? Also do you have guys on the invited list or not?
The final decision is yours but the rules may ultimately determine how successful the party is and who attends? One suggestion is to make wearing lingerie a requirement to attend and have a list of allowable garments. In this scenario it may be best to allow girls to wear conservative lingerie including p.j.’s or cami tops and boy shorts so that as many of your girlfriends attend as possible but not so restrictive that girls are reluctant to show as they simply don’t want to wear revealing lingerie. One suggestion is making it clear that anyone who appears not in lingerie will be allowed to choose from garments chosen by the host. Encourage guests to contact the host to be clear as to what can and can’t be worn. Since the objective is to have fun the best method is to encourage participation but not to make it a party no one wants to attend. Ultimately the more time spent in planning the more fun the girls will have.
One great idea is to have prizes for the best lingerie outfit, sexiest outfit and the most boring sleepwear. All in good fun guests will likely enjoy the festivities if there are some planned events rather than just show up and we will look at you in your underwear.
Next are men allowed and if so what are they to wear? Allowing men to attend may be a great idea but then are they required to be with a girl and if so are they to also wear “lingerie”. While it is up to you the point is to plan as much as possible and guys can make the party more fun as the sexual tension and energy will be unmistakable. There is a big difference between a couples party, girls only and the last option which is single girls, single guys and couples. This is all a decision you must make before the party begins and the decision will help determine how successful the party becomes.
| Game | Idea |
| Bag Ladies | Once all of the guests have arrived to the lingerie party, the hostess passes out a brown grocery bag. Explain to each guest that she needs to place the bag on her head and is not to remove it until told. Once all the bags are in place, the hostess says, “Ok, everyone remove something you don’t need”. Those who quickly catch on will remove the bag. The fun really begins as you watch other attendees take off a necklace, a watch or perhaps even more! The last person to realize that it’s the bag she doesn’t need gets a prize. |
| Hot Potato | This is an adult take on the fun children’s game. Play music and pass a box around. When the music stops, the guest left holding the box must then wear the contents of the box for the remainder of the party. This is a great game to play since everyone can join in the fun. Playing this game is a great way to set a festive tone at the party, but make sure there are enough outfits available for everyone. |
| What’s in the sock? | The hostess should prepare one sock for each guest. Each opaque sock should contain one item, for example, a gag-gift, an adult novelty item or some sensual oils. Place a number on each sock and tie it close. Each guest must now guess the contents of the sock, but here’s the catch: they can only use their feet! After everyone has made their guess, open the sock and reveal its contents. The winner of the contest gets to pick the item of their choice. |









Sexy lingerie for full figured women is lingerie for curvy women with voluptuous bodies. Full figured women have curves and sexy lingerie allows them to look and feel as sexy as they want to be. When was the last time you saw a size 14, 16 or 18 woman on a runway wearing a sexy bra or better yet, sexy panties? The likely answer is never! With plus size women being a significant portion of the U.S. population you would think plus size models and plus size fashion would be much more visible in the media whether it be television, magazines or billboards.








