My Sexy Lingerie Blog

Lingerie parties are for girls who want to have fun wearing lingerie  as the theme or tone of the gathering. Theme parties like lingerie parties offer girls and often guys the opportunity to show off their sexy lingerie to their girlfriends or their boyfriends as well. The combination of attractive girls, lingerie, alcohol is a potent combination and particularly if guys are invited. These days theme parties are all the rage as these unique parties can either be a girls night out or a couples party with an erotic and stimulating twist.

When you are trying to decide whether to have a theme party this is the time to ponder if a lingerie party is being considered and if so should it entail inviting all girls or girls and guys. Since you need to send out invitations either formally or by email or phone calls it is essential to know what the ground rules are and if guys are invited. Unlike a birthday party for kids or a dinner party for married couples a lingerie party needs some ground rules in order to insure that a good time is had by all and no misunderstandings occur.  Some might assume that the party is to sell lingerie much like tupperware or similar parties. Some girls may have no interest in wearing lingerie to a mixed party of guys and girls or even one where only girls will attend.

As you know there is lingerie and then there is sexy lingerie and the invited girls need to know what to wear to the party and you need to know what to do if girls show up not wearing lingerie.  If you truly want girls to wear lingerie is it going to pajamas or short shorts or sheer babydolls and bra and panty sets. If you decide to leave it up to the girls what type of lingerie they are going to wear you may be disappointed particularly if you have a certain dress code in mind. Lingerie parties, like costume parties have the inevitable participants who chicken out at the last minute for any variety of reasons. Girls may love the idea of wearing lingerie to a party and then again they may go along to get along but have little desire to show off to their girlfriends. Whether it be body image issues, modesty or unwillingness to expose themselves be sensitive to the girls who may simply not show up rather than admit that wearing panties, corsets or bra sets to a party is not their idea of a good time. So a lingerie party has a planning element that most other parties with the exception of sexy costume parties have in having invited guests wear the required outfits. So you have a decision to make, do you make wearing lingerie mandatory or optional? Also do you have guys on the invited list or not?

The final decision is yours but the rules may ultimately determine how successful the party is and who attends? One suggestion is to make wearing lingerie a requirement to attend and have a list of allowable garments. In this scenario it may be best to allow girls to wear conservative lingerie including p.j.’s or cami tops and boy shorts so that as many of your girlfriends attend as possible but not so restrictive that girls are reluctant to show as they simply don’t want to wear revealing lingerie. One suggestion is making it clear that anyone who appears not wearing lingerie will be allowed to choose from garments chosen by the host. Encourage guests to contact the host to be clear as to what can and can’t be worn. Since the objective is to have fun the best method is to encourage participation but not to make it a party no one wants to attend. Ultimately the more time spent in planning the more fun the girls will have. Also leaving boys out of the mix may allow everyone to dress naughtier without the fear of having strange guys leering at them in their panties.

One great idea is to have prizes for the best lingerie outfit, sexiest outfit and the most boring sleepwear or something alone those lines. All in good fun, guests will likely enjoy the festivities if there are some planned events rather than just show up and we will look at you in your underwear. As always a little bit of margaritas, mai tais or shooters may make up for a lack of planning but again it depends on the type and quality of a party you would like to have.

Consider how inhibited your group may be and act accordingly. If you group of friends are the type that can’t find a sexy halloween costume slutty or trashy enough then they may jump the shark when it comes to their lingerie outfit. On the other hand if you haven’t seen a girlfriend in her lingerie or have no idea what she thinks about a lingerie party then it is a good idea to ask beforehand. One of the reasons a lingerie party may be a hit is that many girls haven’t attended one or at least a good one. On the other hand many may not have attended simply because they feel uncomfortable wearing lingerie in a semi public environment. It would not hurt polling your friends to see what consensus arises when it comes to the “dress code”.

Next, are men allowed and if so what are they to wear? Allowing men to attend may be a great idea but then are they required to be with a girl and if so are they to also wear “lingerie”. While it is up to you the point is to plan as much as possible and guys can make the party more fun as the sexual tension and energy will be unmistakable. There is a big difference between a couples party, girls only and the last option which is single girls, single guys and couples. This is all a decision you must make before the party begins and the decision will help determine how successful the party becomes.

Don’t make the mistake of simply having girls, guys or both show up, have them mingle and drink and listen to music. Consider having everyone play games or have some entertainment provided to keep the people involved and enjoying themselves.

Games: Sock Game- Get over to your local sex store and purchase some inexpensive gifts that are in unusual shapes, weights. Put them in some socks that completely disquise what is inside and have the participants blindfolded and try to tell what is in the sock with their hands or even better their feet. Whoever guesses what is in the sock gets to keep the contents or pick from the others that were not guessed.

Hot Potato or Hot Lingerie: This is a variation of my favorite children’s game where everyone sits in a chair, music plays and when the music stops there is a mad scramble to get a seat. Here the item is in a box or bag and cannot see what is inside. Start the music and when it stops the person holding the box must wear the item that is in the box. Consider how fun this can be when a guest must wear a strap on dildo or perhaps a sheer top for the rest of the party.

Brown Bag Girls: Pass out a brown paper bag or similar item to all guests. No further instructions are given other than: Please put the bag over your head. Now tell them to remove something you don’t need. Some will realize that they don’t need the bag while others may remove a watch, robe, belt or shoes or ?????? The winner is the one or perhaps ones who remove an article of personal jewelry or even perhaps a pair of panties or even a bra.

Consider having a person who comes to your home to give a sex toy party attend the party. Have them appear fairly early as they may not want to be around when the group has had their third drink and is feeling little pain. As an ice breaker having the girls handle sex toys, vibrators, oils and creams may be great fun but should not be the main reason for the party. Inform them ahead of time as they may not want to participate and show up after the sex toy portion or may want to attend and want to have some handy cash available.

Male dancers are also a potential great or not so great idea. One party I attended had a male dancer but no one was alerted ahead of time. He was a great dancer, great body, well endowed and it seemed all the girls were having a great time. One girl though was mortified, extremely upset and ultimately caused the party to be a disaster. Be sure to give the girls the courtesy of a warning that a male dancer will attend and he will strip down to a thong or will give lap dances or whatever. Be sure you set the ground rules beforehand for the dancer as the combination of alcohol, women in skimpy lingerie and one man in a small thong could be exciting if you know what I mean.

Planning is the key and will ultimately result in a fun environment that the girls will remember for a long time and will be the source of pictures ( be sure you have plenty of cameras available) as well as stories about that time you have a lingerie party!

Sexy clothing for girls is a broad term and includes sexy dresses and skirts, sexy clubwear and trendy tops. Sexy clothing is what girls often want to wear although it is not always overtly sexy but more subtle and sophisticated, while other times it can run to provocative and suggestive. So what do you look for when you are shopping for sexy clothing online or in a retail outlet?

Well it depends  on how sexy do you want to go? In our society sexy often equates with shorter, tighter, more low cut and more skin showing.  This only makes sense as “normal” or non sexy clothing is generally worn for reasons having nothing to do with sex or arousing the opposite sex. Good girls are thought to wear loose fitting, appropriate length skirts and dresses, even pants. It is socially acceptable to wear clothes for warmth, modesty and comfort. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with this, it is clear that sexy clothing is quite the opposite as it is worn for expressing a woman’s sexuality, modesty has little if anything to do with it and comfort is often sacrificed altogether.

Society suggests that women should wear age appropriate clothing although that standard has become more muted and out of date as time goes on. Age appropriate usually refers to older women trying to look and perhaps even act younger than they are. It ususally is slung like an arrow at women who wear sexy clothing that doesn’t fit well or simply shows more than needed on a woman who is seemingly too old to carry it off. Even some celebrities are disparaged by the talking heads on fashion television or magazines for being a cougar or simply wearing outfits that should be left to younger women.

So what is a girl to do? We suggest that girls ignore everyone but themselves and dress however they feel appropriate. Gone are the days where anyone is capable of setting artificial standards for the unwashed masses. How absure that some self appointed “fashion mavens” dare to suggest they know what is best for other girls! Fashion is about fun and sure there will be some women who wear clothing that is too tight, too short or age inappropriate. One would hope that a woman would check in the mirror and prevent that muffin top, or correct those rolls of fat but if she doesn’t no one if being hurt in the least. This “attempt” to prevent these fashion mistakes is admirable but a complete waste of time.

So what is sexy and not slutty or simply offensive? The answer isn’t as easy as it may sound as part of it depends on the surroundings and the time of day. Sexy at 9:00 am is quite different than at 11:00 at night. Most recognize that evening is the time to get sexy while the morning is more for everyday wear. Why is that? Perhaps that adults inhabit the night and children should be tucked away in their beds away from the sight of sexy girls in their skimpy skirt and dresses. Perhaps evening wear is less obvious in the dark of the night and you can get away with wearing clothing that won’t make it during the day.

Thus a sexy skirt at midnight is very likely overly revealing all the way to slutty at night. A woman in high heels and a short dress in makeup at lunch at the local eatery is likely a spectacle while the night before she was simply one of the beautiful girls at a club. Yet this still does not answer the question what is slutty versus what is sexy? Another clue is where are you when the question comes up. In a casino in Las Vegas it may not matter what you are or aren’t wearing as the latitude a girl has in an entertainment venue with women servers wearing an abbreviated waitress outfit is far different than virtually anywhere else.

So how much skin is too much? Does it solely rely on a sense of modesty? Likely yes as girls make a decision every day and as they usually conform to the environment and other people’s perceptions. Society has rules whether we like it or not and most of us depend on it to set the lines beyond which we dare not go.

This is one reason why we have places and occasions where girls let is hang out with impunity. Whatever she has in mind there is plenty of selection when she wants to show off her legs, bust or derriere. Sexy clothing means a lot of things to a lot of girls and the options are enormous.

So what do you want to wear? Is it a sexy mini skirt or a slutty mini dress that goes up to here? A mini skirt is sexy simply by definition and the use of the term mini skirt. When mini skirts were first worn in the 1960’s they created quite a scandal. They revealed a lot of a woman’s legs and risked showing her panties which was totally scandalous. They were worn generally by young girls as they had the legs and bodies to get away with wearing a mini or even a micro mini skirt. Getting away with it meant they had slender legs, hips and tummies and while looking sexy they also did not look vulgar. Sure a glimpse of panties was likely but somehow young girls can get away with a lot that an older woman could only hope to do so. Like it or not age has a lot to do with wearing sexy clothes doe to the tone and condition of her body.
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Sexy Mini Dresses are another staple in a girls wardrobe when it comes time to wear sexy clothing. Mini dresses are simply dresses that are short, tight and sexy. Rather than extending to your knees or just above, sexy mini dresses extend to just below your butt or a bit beyond but rarely to your upper thighs or heaven forbid mid thigh.

Sexy Halter Dresses are one of the most popular mini dresses as well as Mini tube Dresses .

Regardless of what she chooses to wear it is sure that short, tight and revealing will be the standard of what is sexy for time to come. Sexy clothes are basically anti normal or anti dull clothes and what girl wants to look dull normal.