My Sexy Lingerie Blog

Many fashion trends cause a storm of interest and after many years actually become mainstream, thongs, g strings, even bikini panties. Others, alas should be left to wither and die as they just don’t seem to make a lot of sense. For instance: you heard of the car bra that protects the front end of your vehicle from bugs and nicks, well here comes the car thong and of course we must ask, what were you thinking? Lifespan- it was over before the ink dried.

How about the thong low rise jean combo that well lets you wear your skinny jeans and show off your panties on purpose, as though you didn’t show them off on purpose in the first place. Huh?

We at Flirty Lingerie just aren’t sure about this one yet as it seems to have potential. Many women are unsure that it will really stay on and imagine the embarrasment of having your C string, that is what it is called falling off as you are walking down the avenue. It stays on with pressure, leaves no vpl, visible panty lines whatsoever, that is a promise, can you see any? The question may be why? Do women really need this panty? I suppose the same could be said about the G-string panty. It takes a little getting used to but it may be the panty of the future or find itself abandoned. What do you think?

I think this is a keeper as personalizing anthing is kinda hip or at least to those who like personalized stuff. These g string panties allow you to put your phone number, email address, personal messages like do you like my ass? Or for a good time call 967-5309, remember that song? How about I am trapped in these tight pants, send help!

The pearl g string was made popular by the TV series, Sex in the City and part of the appeal was the pearls rubbing against a woman’s unique anatomy that would arouse her all day long, although the prospect of that is painful. Please say this trend has or will soon die. Pearl g strings for Men. Ughh the image is well not one we anticipate will stay around for long or is that just wishful thinkging.

Our thanks to www.trendhunter.com for the trends that we wonder whether they are trends or aberrations.

Funny how when you see an article of lingerie you can almost always be sure there is a trend behind or in front of it. Seems as through the spider or spider web trend is in full bloom. Curious as every girl I have ever know absolutely hates spiders, guys too for that matter but there is something to be said for the trend as it lends itself to showing off large amounts of sexy skin and some of the designs are sexy and cool even if the inspiration is creepy. Photos courtesy of our friends over at www.trenddelacreme.com

I really like this corset top as you can wear it with a bra only or a sexy top or whatever. It zips up and it is kinda cool.

These panties, not so much but they do look a lot like a spider web which is the point after all!

Remember what I said about showing a lot of skin well here we are and I approve. Looks very feminine and does not suggest a spider web at all. Looks very appealing to me even if she looks a bit sad or is that how sexy looks on a fashion model?

Lingerie parties are for girls who want to have fun wearing lingerie  as the theme or tone of the gathering. Theme parties like lingerie parties offer girls and often guys the opportunity to show off their sexy lingerie to their girlfriends or their boyfriends as well. The combination of attractive girls, lingerie, alcohol is a potent combination and particularly if guys are invited. These days theme parties are all the rage as these unique parties can either be a girls night out or a couples party with an erotic and stimulating twist.

When you are trying to decide whether to have a theme party this is the time to ponder if a lingerie party is being considered and if so should it entail inviting all girls or girls and guys. Since you need to send out invitations either formally or by email or phone calls it is essential to know what the ground rules are and if guys are invited. Unlike a birthday party for kids or a dinner party for married couples a lingerie party needs some ground rules in order to insure that a good time is had by all and no misunderstandings occur.  Some might assume that the party is to sell lingerie much like tupperware or similar parties. Some girls may have no interest in wearing lingerie to a mixed party of guys and girls or even one where only girls will attend.

As you know there is lingerie and then there is sexy lingerie and the invited girls need to know what to wear to the party and you need to know what to do if girls show up not wearing lingerie.  If you truly want girls to wear lingerie is it going to pajamas or short shorts or sheer babydolls and bra and panty sets. If you decide to leave it up to the girls what type of lingerie they are going to wear you may be disappointed particularly if you have a certain dress code in mind. Lingerie parties, like costume parties have the inevitable participants who chicken out at the last minute for any variety of reasons. Girls may love the idea of wearing lingerie to a party and then again they may go along to get along but have little desire to show off to their girlfriends. Whether it be body image issues, modesty or unwillingness to expose themselves be sensitive to the girls who may simply not show up rather than admit that wearing panties, corsets or bra sets to a party is not their idea of a good time. So a lingerie party has a planning element that most other parties with the exception of sexy costume parties have in having invited guests wear the required outfits. So you have a decision to make, do you make wearing lingerie mandatory or optional? Also do you have guys on the invited list or not?

The final decision is yours but the rules may ultimately determine how successful the party is and who attends? One suggestion is to make wearing lingerie a requirement to attend and have a list of allowable garments. In this scenario it may be best to allow girls to wear conservative lingerie including p.j.’s or cami tops and boy shorts so that as many of your girlfriends attend as possible but not so restrictive that girls are reluctant to show as they simply don’t want to wear revealing lingerie. One suggestion is making it clear that anyone who appears not wearing lingerie will be allowed to choose from garments chosen by the host. Encourage guests to contact the host to be clear as to what can and can’t be worn. Since the objective is to have fun the best method is to encourage participation but not to make it a party no one wants to attend. Ultimately the more time spent in planning the more fun the girls will have. Also leaving boys out of the mix may allow everyone to dress naughtier without the fear of having strange guys leering at them in their panties.

One great idea is to have prizes for the best lingerie outfit, sexiest outfit and the most boring sleepwear or something alone those lines. All in good fun, guests will likely enjoy the festivities if there are some planned events rather than just show up and we will look at you in your underwear. As always a little bit of margaritas, mai tais or shooters may make up for a lack of planning but again it depends on the type and quality of a party you would like to have.

Consider how inhibited your group may be and act accordingly. If you group of friends are the type that can’t find a sexy halloween costume slutty or trashy enough then they may jump the shark when it comes to their lingerie outfit. On the other hand if you haven’t seen a girlfriend in her lingerie or have no idea what she thinks about a lingerie party then it is a good idea to ask beforehand. One of the reasons a lingerie party may be a hit is that many girls haven’t attended one or at least a good one. On the other hand many may not have attended simply because they feel uncomfortable wearing lingerie in a semi public environment. It would not hurt polling your friends to see what consensus arises when it comes to the “dress code”.

Next, are men allowed and if so what are they to wear? Allowing men to attend may be a great idea but then are they required to be with a girl and if so are they to also wear “lingerie”. While it is up to you the point is to plan as much as possible and guys can make the party more fun as the sexual tension and energy will be unmistakable. There is a big difference between a couples party, girls only and the last option which is single girls, single guys and couples. This is all a decision you must make before the party begins and the decision will help determine how successful the party becomes.

Don’t make the mistake of simply having girls, guys or both show up, have them mingle and drink and listen to music. Consider having everyone play games or have some entertainment provided to keep the people involved and enjoying themselves.

Games: Sock Game- Get over to your local sex store and purchase some inexpensive gifts that are in unusual shapes, weights. Put them in some socks that completely disquise what is inside and have the participants blindfolded and try to tell what is in the sock with their hands or even better their feet. Whoever guesses what is in the sock gets to keep the contents or pick from the others that were not guessed.

Hot Potato or Hot Lingerie: This is a variation of my favorite children’s game where everyone sits in a chair, music plays and when the music stops there is a mad scramble to get a seat. Here the item is in a box or bag and cannot see what is inside. Start the music and when it stops the person holding the box must wear the item that is in the box. Consider how fun this can be when a guest must wear a strap on dildo or perhaps a sheer top for the rest of the party.

Brown Bag Girls: Pass out a brown paper bag or similar item to all guests. No further instructions are given other than: Please put the bag over your head. Now tell them to remove something you don’t need. Some will realize that they don’t need the bag while others may remove a watch, robe, belt or shoes or ?????? The winner is the one or perhaps ones who remove an article of personal jewelry or even perhaps a pair of panties or even a bra.

Consider having a person who comes to your home to give a sex toy party attend the party. Have them appear fairly early as they may not want to be around when the group has had their third drink and is feeling little pain. As an ice breaker having the girls handle sex toys, vibrators, oils and creams may be great fun but should not be the main reason for the party. Inform them ahead of time as they may not want to participate and show up after the sex toy portion or may want to attend and want to have some handy cash available.

Male dancers are also a potential great or not so great idea. One party I attended had a male dancer but no one was alerted ahead of time. He was a great dancer, great body, well endowed and it seemed all the girls were having a great time. One girl though was mortified, extremely upset and ultimately caused the party to be a disaster. Be sure to give the girls the courtesy of a warning that a male dancer will attend and he will strip down to a thong or will give lap dances or whatever. Be sure you set the ground rules beforehand for the dancer as the combination of alcohol, women in skimpy lingerie and one man in a small thong could be exciting if you know what I mean.

Planning is the key and will ultimately result in a fun environment that the girls will remember for a long time and will be the source of pictures ( be sure you have plenty of cameras available) as well as stories about that time you have a lingerie party!

Garter belts are sexy lingerie from the past as garter belts have been worn by women for many decades. While garter belts are sexy lingerie the wearing of them has seen a reemergence as garter belts fell into disuse at the advent of pantyhose. Sexy lingerie is a lot of things to a lot of differant people. Many don’t consider bras and panties as lingerie as they are worn day in and day out. Other consider lingerie as any undergarments worn by women and include bras, panties and other everyday unmentionables. Sexy garter belts are certainly sexy lingerie and they have a colorful and long history in the sexy lingerie hall of fame. Few articles of lingerie have the seductive and sensuous pedigree that garter belts have as they have evolved from utilitarian garment to strictly sexy lingerie.

Most lingerie has evolved at least to some extent over the years, decades and even centuries. Garter belts were a staple of women’s lingerie collections until the advent of pantyhose. Pantyhose freed women from wearing garter belts as they no longer needed something to hold up their stockings. Pantyhose were a combination of stockings, garter belts and panties and who could ask for most convenience? Problem was and is pantyhose are ugly, hot and not really that convenient.

Garter belts have seen a resurgence in popularity in part because they are sexy, beautiful and they accentuate a woman’s body in a special way that assured they would never go away. Thanks in part to miracle fabrics like spandex garter belts are comfortable and not bulky which works well with today’s figure flattering styles in skirts, dresses and other women’s styles.

Should every woman have garter belts in their lingerie wardrobe? Yes, and yes! While many would argue that garter belts are simply a bedroom novelty the resurgence in popularity of garter belts is associated with the popularity of stockings otherwise known as thigh high stockings. The combination of the two is very hot, very sexy lingerie. A peek of a woman’s naked thighs under a skirt is well, breath taking.  You can’t get that with pantyhose, but you can with stockings and garter belts. This naughty, slightly sensuous bit of nostalgia are helping to make garter belts a must have in <>a href=”http://www.flirtylingerie.com/”> sexy lingerie .

Sexy lingerie for full figured women is lingerie for curvy women with voluptuous bodies. Full figured women have curves and sexy lingerie allows them to look and feel as sexy as they want to be. When was the last time you saw a size 14, 16 or 18 woman on a runway wearing a sexy bra or better yet, sexy panties? The likely answer is never! With plus size women being a significant portion of the U.S. population you would think plus size models and plus size fashion would be much more visible in the media whether it be television, magazines or billboards.

Plus Size Lingerie is sexy lingerie for full figured women and is worn by millions of women but doesn’t get much play in the media. As a youth oriented culture we worship everything young and as a nation obsessed with slender, even skinny women we also worship everything slim. Women with curves are acceptable to a point with the word “fat” or “overweight” being considered nearly curse words. We accept size 34DD breasts on a woman who wear a size 4 but not on a woman who wears a size 14 or 16.

So what is a woman who is voluptuous or curvy to do? Wear more sexy lingerie is the only answer. Plus size women do not wear sexy lingerie as much as their more slender sisters. There is much speculation as to the reasons why but part of the reason is the selection of sexy plus size lingerie does not match that of missy sizes. So is it the chicken or the egg? In other words does demand for sexy lingerie determine supply or does supply determine demand. Well it is a little of both as suppliers and manufacturers will attempt to make as much sexy lingerie as they can to meet demand. On the other hand many suppliers are content to create sexy lingerie for women not in the plus size market as the demand is consistent, the market is fairly well defined and the plus size market is still an unknown quotient to a large degree.

Unlike outerwear, women don’t have to wear sexy lingerie. Women wear lingerie for a number of reasons but since it is usually worn in the privacy of their bedrooms, lingerie is often substituted with pajamas, t-shirts and panties, and the proverbial flannel night gown. Do plus size women opt for the safe and unsexy utilitarian bed clothes more than their regular sized sisters? While statistics are hard to come by the truth is wearing sexy lingerie is risky. Risky in that a woman’s body is on display in ways men never really appreciate other than they love the exposure of the woman’s body, breasts, derriere, tummy and other sexy parts. Women though often have conflicting feelings about wearing clothing that exposes and even accentuates her sagging breasts, flabby thighs or unfirm butt. While the man in her life is pleased, proud and aroused at the sight of his girlfriend or wife in all her near naked glory, a woman may worry about those perceived flaws thus being unable to truly enjoy the moment.  Do plus size women have this worry more than regular sized women? Probably as they have more weight to deal with and thus those flaws, real or perceived are increased.

Lingerie isn’t meant to hide flaws although many types of lingerie can and do improve a woman’s figure. Careful purchasing can make every woman look sexier, slimmer or just more voluptuous and that is definitely a good thing. No woman should fear wearing sexy lingerie regardless of her weight any more than fearing lingerie because of her hair color, height or education. Simply put every woman is a sexual being and lingerie can and should enhance that truth as well as make her feel and look sexy.

Gains are being made towards greater acceptance of full figured women in sexy and revealing lingerie. Online communities are growing that seek to empower full figured women in every aspect of their lives and a likely benefit is women’s acceptance of themselves, their bodies and that is a very positive step. While wearing sexy lingerie is not a political statement, it does reflect a plus sized woman’s acceptance of her body.  Changing attitudes won’t happen quickly but in time every woman will be more comfortable in her own skin. The question then will be who benefits more, the woman who loves the body she sees in the mirror or the man who gets the gift of seeing her.

Each new lingerie season there are more and more options for curvaceous cuties to buy sexy clothing and lingerie as more vendors recognize that the demand for misses sized lingerie is not growing robustly as that of full figured lingerie. The untapped demand for plus size mini skirts, plus size costumes and sexy clothes in general is huge. Socially the results are mixed as society may or may not be ready for sexy plus size women in sexy clothes where they are more visible. A recent controversy involving retailer Lane Bryant is indicative of the reluctance of at least a couple of television networks to allow commercials including a plus size woman with plus size breasts in a bra. Apparently the networks were nervous about a woman’s breasts in a bra. Women have breasts but perhaps a woman’s breasts are ok if they are on a slender model, even if they are enhanced and large. A real woman’s breasts are very sexy and in fact too sexy as the commercial was not allowed to run. There is a strong social prohibition against exposing her breasts in public although perhaps there are two standards. One for the slender woman with big breasts and the other for plus size women with large breasts.

While fashion shows have been around for ages, lingerie fashion shows are a bit of the new kid on the block. Lingerie lines have always had an outlet for showing the new lines of lingerie, many credit Victoria’s Secret with pushing Lingerie shows onto television and more mass market appeal. Today, lingerie has made many models rich and famous and helped lingerie become so very main stream.

These lingerie models have a number of things in common besides being gorgeous and sexy. The first thing that pops out at me is the size of their boobs. Apparently Heidi Klum recently had hers augmented and good for her, now she is only the most gorgeous blonde on planet earth, or at least in my opinion. How about Tyra Banks who has always had large breasts, and the rest of the “girls” look positively busty! What better way to sell a sexy bra than to put a pair of big boobs in them and attach a gorgeous body and face, and don’t forget the hair. This is nothing like the fashion runways where most of the girls are anorexic and flat chested. These girls at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show are positively healthy.
Gemma Atkinson is a babe and she wasn’t chosen by accident as she is busty and gorgeous. I need to keep from saying that but these ladies are hard to describe otherwise. Every man desires her and most women would love to have her body and she sure makes that blue bra and panty set look good enough to eat.

Miranda Kerr is an angel in her seamless t-shirt bra with sheer floral boy shorts in pink. This is a youthful, flirty lingerie outfit that befits a younger woman and a lingerie bra and panty set that can be worn virtually anywhere, under anything and it look quite comfortable at that. The statement here is being sexy while being practical, sensible even.

The statement here is “I have beautiful breasts and sexy is the word”. They say that if you have it flaunt it and if not have it surgically implanted. Both of these lovely stars/models are undeniably sexy and these bras are about as sensible as riding a motorcycle in the snow but they are fun to look at and seem to stay on by magic. These are not your everday bras but they do send a message and that is “Look at me, I am woman, I am dreamy”. Lingerie is a lot of things to a lot of people and most of all it says a lot about who you are and how you feel about yourself as does all clothing. These demi bras provide minimum coverage and are wasted being hidden under a blouse or jacket.

The addition of the boy shorts gives this a young look and feel, almost innocent until you look at the whole package. <a href=”http://technorati.com/claim/2f8xrsi5ac” rel=”me”>Technorati Profile</a>

Sexy panties are so cute and sexy, tiny and flirty and girls and guys seem to love them. Sexy panties attract girls as they love wearing the cute and tiny wisps of panties as they make them look and feel sexy as well as look so adorable. Panties were for sanitary purposes only and were never to be seen, ever! I love panties and I don’t care who knows it! Panties are my favorite lingerie garment by far and I see new designs every day that make we wish I could buy every single one of them.

 Don’t you just adore these sheer panties with embroidery ? The detail is awesome and the white fabric against her tanned skin is delightful. How do you think this pair of panties makes her feel.

This Lola Luna thong is exquisite, mature and very sexy. Unlike the full coverage boy shorts above these thongs say something different about the woman who wears them. Minimum coverage, lots of skin showing and while the same woman may wear them, she will likely feel a lot different in one pair rather than the other.

Busty bras are simply bra for women with large busts or busty women. But when offered the busty bras women often ask “You want me to wear that”? The reason is busty bras too often offer too little support yet offer plenty of sheer, lace and frilly details and forget that busy women really need support, otherwise they can bounce around when jiggle is inappropriate. Busty women wear bras and know all to well that not all bras for busty women are made alike. 

Every buxom girl has, at one point or another, faced the nightmare of walking into a department or lingerie store, and started shopping for a new bra, thinking, “Oh, I’ll find that sexy little sheer black number in a DD instead of an A”. Suddenly, you’re faced with the horror of the Big Bra Rack — in the dimly lit corner of the store, full of white, tan and brown straitjackets and bullet-proof vests, an absolute nightmare awaits you…The size A bra is sexy, feminine and very appealing to the eye, particularly the eyes of your boyfriend or husband. The reality is often that the DD bra is a hideous tan or nude or even worse white and at 22, you will look like grandma at 74.

Some women grow so accustomed to the world of Grandma Gear, they are now lost in the world of Playtex 18-Hour spandex and polyester. The rebels give up on bras entirely, opting for sports bras and shelf tanks rather than being caught dead in “one of those”. The tech-savvy girl is on all the catalog mailing lists, waiting for them to notify her by e-mail when they receive the one cute bra the manufacturer will ever make in a 44F. And the crafty girl gives up entirely and buys herself some supplies and a “Sew Your Own Bra” book at the local sewing store.

Bustier girls find bra shopping can be hard on your wallet, too. Most companies tend to charge more for bigger bras because of the additional fabric and work that goes into making them.

But don’t despair! You don’t have to wear something that looks like it came out of Auntie Annabel’s closet. Here are a few tips and tricks so you can make the most out of your sexy bra wardrobe:

- Be realistic. The sheer and specialty fabrics probably aren’t going to give you the support you need. You do not need the trauma of wearing a bra made out of flimsy mesh that ripped five minutes into wearing it because it wasn’t designed for you. Plus, you probably don’t have the time to hand wash every delicate piece of clothing you wear. Buy firm, supportive bras that can do double duty – work and play. Satin, lace, embroidered cotton and microfiber are good fabrics to start with.

- Get creative! An otherwise plain satin bra can become sexy when you pair it with a matching thong, two-toned backseam stockings, and a cute pair of kitten heels. Don’t be coerced into thinking that plain can’t be sexy.

- Buy bras that coordinate with other items. When you’re shopping, ask if they have matching pieces. You can wear the bra and panty by day and add the garter belt and stockings at night…

- If they don’t have it in your size or color, ask if you can special order. You may have to place a minimum order, so ask what the return policy is in case you don’t like it.

- The final and key point to remember is comfort. You won’t wear it if it’s comfortable, so why buy it at all? Let’s face it sometimes you have to sacrifice comfort for fashion or style. That sheer bra that you adored at flirty lingerie may not be the most supportive but you and your husband just love the way it looks on you, so what are you going to do? Well, buy the bra as you don’t likely intend to wear it to work or all day. If you are going to wear it to work or all day perhaps the fully supportive, plain vanilla bra is the most appropriate.

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